Erm....ok!
I have bought my house @ west coast. Below are the photos that I have taken hastily.
Bare with my shooting skills, I am not cut-out to be a photographer.
"Sea-View" with 很多船.
The whole unit is "RAW". Need to get alot of renovation done. Saw some nice 3 room design for inspiration.
Went to visit my "干爹" on Saturday. Wanted him to get me a 好日子 for my ROM.
After much calculation, he decided on 8月初五 which is 12th Sep 2010.
The date is set. Now the problem is our wedding band......
Have been screening so many shops but none fit into our likings.
I wanted GOLD. I prefer the traditional gold with simple designs. And we don't like thin, slim type.
The problem is most design outside are thin and slim.
I am kinda happy and excited that I am taking another stage in life.
Which is a big decision to be made.
Somehow or rather....I don't see the happiness in him. No effort seen to research and planning.
When I asked him, his concern is all about $$$.
Who don't know we need a lot of money. I spent so much for the house.
I am VERY concern about the money too. But regardless of whether we have enough or not enough we still have to proceed on. "Isn't it"
He's behavior mades me wanna take a step back to reconsider. I am not despo to get marry.
I am DESPERATE for a house to shelter me & mum.
Last night when we r in the car...as he drove..I pick up vivid pictures of me and mum lying down in the living room @ our old home. No one will ever understand that kind of feelings....
We lay down there for the last day with nothing in the house. That's the day where the new owner will take over the house. Lying down there....having deep thoughts....
"Where R we going to live from tonight onwards?"
"How r we going to move on?"
"Why did we ended up this way?"
After much calculation, he decided on 8月初五 which is 12th Sep 2010.
The date is set. Now the problem is our wedding band......
Have been screening so many shops but none fit into our likings.
I wanted GOLD. I prefer the traditional gold with simple designs. And we don't like thin, slim type.
The problem is most design outside are thin and slim.
I am kinda happy and excited that I am taking another stage in life.
Which is a big decision to be made.
Somehow or rather....I don't see the happiness in him. No effort seen to research and planning.
When I asked him, his concern is all about $$$.
Who don't know we need a lot of money. I spent so much for the house.
I am VERY concern about the money too. But regardless of whether we have enough or not enough we still have to proceed on. "Isn't it"
He's behavior mades me wanna take a step back to reconsider. I am not despo to get marry.
I am DESPERATE for a house to shelter me & mum.
Last night when we r in the car...as he drove..I pick up vivid pictures of me and mum lying down in the living room @ our old home. No one will ever understand that kind of feelings....
We lay down there for the last day with nothing in the house. That's the day where the new owner will take over the house. Lying down there....having deep thoughts....
"Where R we going to live from tonight onwards?"
"How r we going to move on?"
"Why did we ended up this way?"
That's why I swear to get US "me & mum" a home our own even if its going to drain off ALL my savings.
Indeed it had. But it's all worth-while.
Indeed it had. But it's all worth-while.
Oh-ya....just refresh that I meet up with Liping & rachel for coffee @ west coast plaza.
It was a short few hours coffee.
We ended up talking about marriage as rachel just got ROM and is proceeding with her customary this December. She had some problem with her fifi (Her hubby).
She was complaining about how lazy and untidy he is that she has just realised.
The 1st thing that comes into my mind is "black".
He's .......................................... I have ever met among people I know well.
I really don't know what would it be like to live with him in our new home.
All the sweet wrappers lying around. Multiples cups and bowls in most corner he went to.
The throwing of wore shoes in the floor, walking into the house with the shoes ON!!
Jeans & T-shirt everywhere.........
So many more which I couldn't imagine a normal person is capable of.
Oh-my-god! All these images in my mind is driving me BONKERS.
Its like the fire boiling my blood in a rush.
forget about it.....说些开心的...
We ...Sorry its ME!!! not we...went to inform his mum about our ROM date.
she's very concern and give a lot of positive advice.
she even demanded me to "stay-off" the planning for our lunch treats for the 2 familys during our ROM day.
She tells me: 你放心这些东西是我们应该做的. 你们只需要去找你们的结婚戒子.
I felt welcome as a daughter in law to become.
She tooks the initiative & effort to make me feel she is glad to have me as part of the family.
she wants to play a part in our preparation for the ROM. I felt the warmth inside.
As for me...since I have chosen this path..I should not regret and MUST live happily not for anyone but myself and mum.
Hope to get our 1st appointment @ HDB asap to settle everything..........
God bless
It was a short few hours coffee.
We ended up talking about marriage as rachel just got ROM and is proceeding with her customary this December. She had some problem with her fifi (Her hubby).
She was complaining about how lazy and untidy he is that she has just realised.
The 1st thing that comes into my mind is "black".
He's .......................................... I have ever met among people I know well.
I really don't know what would it be like to live with him in our new home.
All the sweet wrappers lying around. Multiples cups and bowls in most corner he went to.
The throwing of wore shoes in the floor, walking into the house with the shoes ON!!
Jeans & T-shirt everywhere.........
So many more which I couldn't imagine a normal person is capable of.
Oh-my-god! All these images in my mind is driving me BONKERS.
Its like the fire boiling my blood in a rush.
forget about it.....说些开心的...
We ...Sorry its ME!!! not we...went to inform his mum about our ROM date.
she's very concern and give a lot of positive advice.
she even demanded me to "stay-off" the planning for our lunch treats for the 2 familys during our ROM day.
She tells me: 你放心这些东西是我们应该做的. 你们只需要去找你们的结婚戒子.
I felt welcome as a daughter in law to become.
She tooks the initiative & effort to make me feel she is glad to have me as part of the family.
she wants to play a part in our preparation for the ROM. I felt the warmth inside.
As for me...since I have chosen this path..I should not regret and MUST live happily not for anyone but myself and mum.
Hope to get our 1st appointment @ HDB asap to settle everything..........
God bless
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