单纯的幸福

幸福的定意是什么?
It depends on individual way of looking at things in a very personal view.
I used to think that finding someone "PERFECT" 是幸福的.
PERFECT's defination:
- Caring (for my personal needs)
- Career ( for a stable income)
- Car (for the convenience of me)
- Faithful (Who don't?)
- Responsible man ( for me & the family we're gg to have)
- Rich (for the comfort of life)
- Non-violent ( for not repeating what I used to go through)
- Fun ( for the entainment btw 2 person
- blah blah blah.......


I guess most ladies out there should have some similiar WANTS as me.
This is what parents love to see from their Son/Daughter In Law.
But...as I learnt to see things from bigger angle. I realised it's not the case.
幸福 is something around U that you can chose to see it or unintentionally blinded yourself with emotions to conseal it. I always grumble about Black, this 不好 that 不好. Indeed he is far fetch from my "Perfect" criteria. (which is not realistic at all)
很庆兴的是 I happened to find out that I already had all I wish for. But it came in discreetly in disguise.
For example: When we quarrel, I wil walk away. Even in a movie, I left him watching the movie alone. He never once ran after me. (Which I always thinks that he simply don't care)
But no matter how badly it goes, when I called him. Regardless of all the shit he have gotten from me. He will drive over to fetch me without 第二句.
Black is someone who NEVER admit he's mistake. NEVER adores the using of "SORRY" this word.
I hate it!!!! But sometime later I realised...He has he's own way of expressing it.
I am glad that I have learnt to see things this way which makes me a happier person.