Can't figure out what is wrong with me anyway. don't see the need to see a doctor for such minor problems.
while writing this blog, I overheard black's conversation with his mum over the phone.
At this hour, his mum DEMANDED & INSISTED him to drive to the air-port to fetch his uncle's 1 whole family of 4 home which is at Bukit Merah. WHAT THE BIG DEAL right??? Issue is, he's license has been "Kan-Tong". Now 10.24pm Thurdays. Anyone will know it's not wise. Worse still it's his mum. (Can U imagine that?) Penalty for driving without license is JAIL-TERM & FINE. I can't understand Y his mum will demand something like this knowing that he don't have a license. Moreoever, his uncle went for holiday. Black has no obligation to do this. As a gesture, Ok i can accept it but now it's ILLEGAL. Even when I go club, I wouldn't even ask him to drive me there. All & all black has his wrong too, he agreed to it before his uncle went for holiday when he's mum asked him, he did not even ask what time the plane lands. He ALWAYS agree on anything people asked him to, yet always screw the thing up as he never get the details.
I have no RIGHT to comment much on what their family gesture BUT on reasonable grounds I guess commenting on this is perfectly alright.
I am really afraid of those MIL issues in the future. I am someone who HATES to be given instructions to do things which is OUT-OF-MY-DUTY. I will REJECT without further consideration. But it doesn't mean I won't do. On my own accord I will. I will wash all the clothings(when his mum is busy), wash all their "LEFT-OVER" plates. Pack the house. Cos I know I have to make some contribution as I am staying here. BUT never INSTRUCT. INSTRUCT & asking a FAVOR is far to apart.
- NEVER HINTs me to keep your son's shoes when HE MISPLACED it HIMSELF.
- NEVER TELLS me to cook for your son when he tells U not ME that he's hungry.
- NEVER TELLS me to pour water for your son when HE ASK U not ME.
It's not easy to live together under one roof. Expecially for a SPOILED-BRAT like me.
My sis will always cook for me when I am hungry.
Mum will do everything for me even washing my innner-wear.
Doing shopping @ NTUC, Mum will even will carry 3 big bags N I will carry 1.
BUT when I am staying @ black's home. I make sure ALL my things R done in the right manner.
I don't mind going extra miles to do a little more WILLINGLY which I will & have done so.
Everyone has characteristic that's nice & not.
His mum does have quite a number that's nice.
She apply creams on my back when I cough non-stop.
She feel bad about us sleeping in the facial room instead of a proper-bed.
She asked black's bro to sleep on the floor so that I can sleep on the bed when her customer came in the morning. (For this I really gotta say: thanks you from my heart to his bro & mum)
She cooks for us when we are working.
I mean overall she's great but everyone has flaws.
I am sure I have. (N its a lot)
Ok. I am done grumbling over this kinda 阿嫂 nags.
Yesterday, Black's sis bought me a Korea imported "black eye-liner".
I can somehow feel it's for my birthday. (If I'm not wrong)
Maybe she feel kinda shy to tell me that. Vice-visa!
I felt really happy as her thoughts was sweet & sincere.
Talking about this, my birthday is just 2 days ahead.
长大了, I realised that birthday is nothing to be excited about.
Current plan is going to DF with a few friends.
In fact I know everyone's presence will only be for "clubbing" not exactly for my birthday. Cos it's obvious.
Called Amanda today to ask if we will be meeting out for a dinner with the others as my birthday is approaching. In fact, there's nothing big deal abt my brithday, it's just the gathering of the few of us that I really wants. She told me she's busy. See how first. She asked me to call the others. I did not.
You know what, its not the presents that I am interested about ( Which they won't prepare anyway). It's the thoughts that counts. The thought of meeting up over lunch or dinner to have some gigs to laugh over the food. kinda felt a lil 寒心. Used to read Brenda's blog: She always have her group of girlfriends or should I say Sisters hanging out once a while. All of them make effort to meet-up & dress-up for Halloween. Book a hotel room to sun-tan, spa or swim together for a day to past wonderfully. I am really envious over all this. Most of her friends R mummies or attached too, but everyone just took a lil time, $$ & most imptly EFFORT. There's goes the gathering!!! I never fancy these few words : "没有时间/没有空"
We manage our life, which leads to us managing our own time. It's simple. It's EFFORT that's makes everything works.
Was Facebooking in the noon with DOLPHIN, I merely saw her once during a common gf's hens night out which is 2009. all I did was posting :
But friends which you can really speak out heart N put in effort for each other is getting lesser.
Maybe others have a lot but I guess I can't seems to really find one like this. Someone who never wears a mask, speaks truthfully. Mature enough to know the enjoyment of gossiping is different from chat-chatting about the good-old days we once shared together.
Most of the time what I encounter or have seens r like:
" Wow...New bag ah" (looking @ yr LV/Loewe/Gucci...) (thinking if it's imitation / out of jealousy)
- or those that can't wait to spread how blissful their life or marriage is.
- boosting on how much he/she is earning
I mean some of this happenings can be sincere & just out of casual talks.
But there r simply those that tries very hard to be sarcastic or something to boost about.
Just hope that everything will just goes well for that night.contented to have them coming.
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